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Facebook is one of the biggest grounds of dating nowadays. What’s the first step that you need to attract a woman? Your Facebook profile! Believe me or not, but your profile does 35 % of your work. It also decides, supremely for the girl whether she has to talk to you or not.If you chat with a girl daily, or occasionally,Now lets think how do you attract her?
Suppose you are in a social networking site, the profile is a very important feature. It is actually equivalent to ‘the first impression’ scenario. Whatever a girl sees in your profile, builds your first impression in her eyes. So how should your profile look like:
-Â Don’t leave it blank because you don’t want to put nonsense in it or you don’t have anything to put.Â
75% of guys leave their profiles absolutely blank because they have nothing to put. By doing this you are actually telling a girl how much disinterested a person you could come out to be – you either are very boring or too cocky.
– Don’t fill your profile if you are really lame.Â
A profile less interesting to a girl is a direct turn off. She’d never even bother to talk to you. Maximum number of guys live in the illusion that they are really cool, or what they have written is very hip andÂ hypnotizing. But don’t fall into that bubble. Every girl has a standard in her mind, she’d only talk to you if you come above it or on it.
– If you have no ideas, copy someone’s profile.Â
This might sound really cheap, but do anything to earn the first impression. Don’t copy it from someone you know, Internet has a very wide variety of users, just copy it from someone who’d never find about it, and even if he does, it’s not a big deal – you both just happen to have the same interests. Most importantly, fill your profile with good stuff.
2) Your profile picture
Pictures you shouldn’t post:
– You standing next to your car.Â
It could be anyone’s car. Who are you kidding? Put it in your album.
– You are standing a mile away.Â
Is the scene really beautiful? Put it in your album then.
Pictures you should post:Â
– Your close up from any strange possible dimensions.Â
Being weird is cool. And if the look isn’t making it better, you have a thousand photo- editing softwares. Use them and make it awesome.Â Â
– A pic showing how crazy you are.Â
For example – You in the stadium watchingÂ SuperbowlÂ and cheering for your favorite team.
– Picture showingÂ individuality.Â
Anything that is accidentally or naturally making you look or come out strong.
for example – Picture of you holding a trophy.
Girls, if they like you in the chat, always look at the pictures and so do guys. It’s a common thing. So choose carefully what you show in your pictures. It doesn’t matter how you look in the pictures, what matters is the surrounding, quality, your clothes, your actions, and of course the place. For example:
Don’t put a picture such as:
– You are smoking weed with your collar raised, wearing a cheap red-colored shirt and aviator shades.
– You and your friends are laughing with your teeth out. (if it’s a good laugh, then of course yes)
Always remember:Â Your bad dressing sense takes a second for a woman to turn you down.
– Avoid wearing shirts if you are below 18, or if they don’t fit you and are bright colored. (exception: If they really fit you, and are decent, then why not)
Don’t hesitate in uploading pictures that you like. For example
– – Funny notes from your notebook or pad.
– – Pictures about paintings or Music that form a part of your liking.
Step IV: How you talk:
This step comprises of things related to your typing style to your sense of humor, to how much you can engage a woman in talking with you. To be clear, a woman needs one chat to find that she wants to talk to you or not. She’d get interested by your profile, your style in the pictures and that would get her to chat with you, or message.
While chatting things you need to notice:
Don’t type like Hi mY nAme iZZ bL%&@That’s just immature and stupid, except if you are talking to a 15 year old and you are yourself 13. Make sure you type like a human being who has a job which is not cleaning someone’s car outside the parkway – even if you do that, type like you don’t. I am not saying it’s ‘the most’ important thing or something, but it does have psychological implications. You don’t want to show that you are a Junkie, orÂ dyslexic, or you have never been to college and typed a real paper on something.
strong>- Put good status messages.
Your status message is the thing that is reaching to her, when your personal message is not. So it is a kind of more than private thing. She is reading that.
Drag her in on your stuff.Â
Facebook has an amazing feature of tagging people. This way you can share with them what you sign up bonus online casino do, for example: If you are a musician, you can tag her in your video, or message her your track; if you are a writer, you can write notes, and tag her in them; if you are into photography, tag; if you are a painter or into sketching, tag. It doesn’t matter if it’s your job or not. It could be your hobby too.
If you have recently added some Girl, 50% of impression lies in the above things. You don’t even have to talk to her; and this is the magic of online dating.
Â Here are a few things what guys do after adding a girl they want to befriend:
– They message her different remarks about the way she looks, which most of the times are superfluous, highly overrated, pampering, and sleazy too.
– They repeatedly message a Hi or Hello, or many a times some piece of poetry that wouldnât even make any sense for her as what to reply.
– They comment on her status messages, comments that are totally unnecessary and would get you no where!
Note:Â I am not saying that these things donât work, of course they are going to work if one does them consistently and the girl hasnât deleted him yet; he might get a âHi or hello or thanksâ from her, which is of course one of the exceptional cases because the girl is very polite.
What to do and how to find a solution?
The first thing that you need to do is show her a purpose; show her that there is a purpose which is why you have added or wanted to befriend her; and by doing that you erase the idea from her mind that you sent her a friend request randomly.
– You show her that you are an able man. (Itâs psychological)
– You get a reply immediately because no other guy has done it before.
What should be the purpose?
Always remember:Â Your purpose is just a pretext in tricking her to talking to you. It is not an actual purpose, something like a business proposition or work you need her participation with. So be creative, imaginative, and make something up. It can be anything as little as- âHey, I am a musician, and I need people, good listeners such as you, to comment on my musicâ. Those of you who are not musicians might think that this doesnât apply to them, but again, itâs only a pretext. Go to any music site, there are a thousand people uploading their music videos covering established songs everyday; download one good acoustic track and send it to her. This is just one random example. You can find countless of creative things to use as pretexts. After doing this, you get into the terms of talking to her faster than anybody who has ever added her randomly. You use the same pretext for your initial chats too, in which you suddenly pretend to have found such a great person accidently; you request her to keep in touch by the means of mails/ messages from time to time.
What do you message/ mail her?
From here on, you become the most curious person in the world, you ask her everything about her life that you possibly can. And be assured because a girl loves to answer questions regarding her life. But you never ask her direct questions like- âDo you have a boyfriend?â you ask her about the idea of love that she carries. If she is too philosophical and unrealistic, she is single. You never ask her one question, you make a list in which at least five questions should be random and entertaining. They can be anything from movies, music to what interests her the most!
– What do you think about love?
– Whatâs your favorite bandâs name? or musician?
– When was the last time you cried?
– What do you want to do in your life? (Get into philosophical questions)
– Whatâs your favorite color? Does a guy sound gay if he says it is purple?
– Do you have a pet? If you have to buy one, would that be the one that bites or scratches?
And so on, your questions have to be about extracting as well as entertaining. Later on, you ask questions from her answers. The reason behind asking a girl questions through mails/ messages is that girls generally donât start chatting with guys they have randomly added. They might chat with you only once or twice. So, in order to have a conversation, because that is what you need to do to become her good friend, you exchange mails/ messages which require answers, indirectly having all the long conversations which you are unable to directly.
Note:Â Try to be consistent; you donât want to be losing this away by lazing it around. The secret behind writing her mails is that you are trapping her into a routine; and the day sheâll realize that, sheâd be used to the habit of writing you or reading your mails in a pattern. And if she likes reading your mails/ messages, and you continue to be decent, maximum number of girls won’t hesitate in exchanging their numbers.